tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5300228022186900947.post5935082053918953036..comments2023-10-30T02:45:01.604-07:00Comments on Someday we'll put it together and get it all done!: Mother's Day is coming upUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5300228022186900947.post-23850795860045372352009-05-08T23:07:00.000-07:002009-05-08T23:07:00.000-07:00Until I got Baylie, I hated Mother's Day. It was p...Until I got Baylie, I hated Mother's Day. It was painful and I felt like a failure. I've been thinking a lot about Baylie's birthmom. I wish we had a relationship with her. Thanks to her, I now look forward to this day. But it's still tinged with sadness as I think of other infertile women, women who have miscarried and now mothers who have placed for adoption. I just learned about Birth Mother's day today and I'm planning on going to an activity for it tomorrow. I can't imagine how it feels to place a baby for adoption, but I do know that I would have never been a mother without a birthmom that was willing to share her baby with me. It's such a complex relationship. I hope you are able to meet your son someday.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18029371212419586975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5300228022186900947.post-82439277233673815222009-05-02T03:13:00.000-07:002009-05-02T03:13:00.000-07:00A few years ago a friend of mine had a still born ...A few years ago a friend of mine had a still born (her fisrt child) after being pregnant for almost 9 months. A year later on Mother's Day, I felt impressed to go over her house and give her flowers and say Happy Mother's Day. I was nervous but I am so glad that I did because she really appreciated it. This just reminds me that you are the Mother no matter what happens to your child. I am so glad you told me about birthmom day, I will not forget this day.Ixchellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16275821784685883199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5300228022186900947.post-19218857736580651512009-05-01T08:21:00.000-07:002009-05-01T08:21:00.000-07:00I remember the first time someone wished me a happ...I remember the first time someone wished me a happy Mother's Day after I had placed my baby for adoption. I was surprised, but it felt nice to have someone say it. My parents never did, as they felt that she wasn't my baby, get over it. Are people really that stupid and unfeeling to think this is something you forget? I always make it a point to tell the mothers I know that have gone through placing a baby for adoption happy Mother's Day, because they are a mother. Just wish society would open their eyes and see that.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09137669188345117749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5300228022186900947.post-91587995857865563992009-05-01T02:05:00.000-07:002009-05-01T02:05:00.000-07:00Thank you so much Desi.Pretty kind poem indeed.I l...Thank you so much Desi.Pretty kind poem indeed.I like the wordings n the affection involved.Wish you n all in advance a joyful Mom's day.<br /><br />lol:)<br /><A HREF="http://www.us2bangalore.com/" REL="nofollow">Mother's Day Gift Ideas</A>|<A HREF="http://www.us2chennai.com/" REL="nofollow">Mother's day gift</A>|<A HREF="http://www.gifts2indian.com/" REL="nofollow">Send gifts for mom to India</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5300228022186900947.post-54366037544010953942009-04-30T11:03:00.000-07:002009-04-30T11:03:00.000-07:00isn't it the best poem ever?? I love it! I don't m...isn't it the best poem ever?? I love it! I don't mind you linking to me by the way :)you don't HAVE to thoughAndeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17864157962985816889noreply@blogger.com